Are you ok???

 

Hey Human,

Me, again...

We often ask our family, friends, colleagues & to few people who we know whether they are doing ok✅ It's a good thing indeed, it's a very noble thing. I insist that we being human being , a social animal have to have a check on our loved ones. We never know when our 'Are you doing ok?' will be so important for the other person, who wants someone to ask about his/her/them well being. 

Sometimes people(our loved ones too!!) go through lot of stuffs but leading our busy lives we often forget to ask this simple question to them and trust me we loose them. Loosing them ? you might think it wont happen but trust me it does. 

Many times we take them for granted and don’t bother to ask then anything and instead think they are leading the PERFECT life. 

We all know perfect life is not always perfect, it always comes with an 'im'. Let’s  try to make that 'im' to "I'm" and add two more words 'there fo you'. 

So make a habit to ask your loved ones how they are doing. Trust me this will make your relationship more stronger than ever.

I also suggest you all to ask strangers also when you find them in situations where, they seem lost 😞,crying😭, helpless or off. You will be changing someone's life. Try that, it feels damn good. 

We can be really nice to each other and create a better world where, you will know everyone and everyone will know you. Imagine that, what a wonderful world will that be. 

Can we be little more good?? or can we care more?? can we be the human we are supposed to be??

Anyhow it's your call, who am I to tell... I'm just a mere common commoner...

Yours truly,

TCC

The Window

 

Hey Human,

All good? I take that as yes 😀...

This is all about us, I'm gonna write down here.

We all live in our own shells, we build our own boundaries, we think we cannot achieve, we believe we are incapable , we search for excuses for not achieving, we blame others for our failures, we do so many things to ourselves which we should not be doing (Not always but we tend to do it). 

I'm damn sure that we do think that, all these thoughts are bad which are haunting our mind and decide not to go back to that room but yet, we go and hug those feelings of darkness again and put that shell back on.

Do you think we can change? how can we come out of that room? how can we wear off that shell?

I do think it’s possible if we open the widow, which window? you might wonder. The "WINDOW" of hope, faith in ourselves that we can be better, creativity, appreciation. HOPE is just a 4 letter word but it can do miracles. It will lead you to the future which you cannot even imagine.  

Coming to me, I loved fantasy movies/novels/series so that I could at least runaway from the reality for some time but, now I know, I cannot live in those fantasies coz the world which I live in, is a pretty damn real one. I have learned to accept the real world, it was (and still is) difficult but it's not impossible. 

I have opened my window into writing now, I've focussed all my energy in writing realities. I will share few of mine & my people's real experiences which have been pretty interesting than fantasies. I guess I found my window. I'm yet to explore where and how far it will lead but I'm pretty sure, it will lead at least half way to the satisfaction path, which my soul is searching for.

I suggest you all, to search within the wall, which you have built with your own thoughts.  Break those boundaries slowly, I know it's hard to break those, especially the ones which we have built for us. There is a window, I'm sure just waiting to be opened and you will be astonished to find out, what it opens into. You are a star, born to shine not to hide within the black clouds of other's judgement. You are not defined by others, you make your own definition, you make your OWN BRAND and carry it with PRIDE. Let them not judge you, don't let your own thoughts to judge you, you are what you are, you are brilliant, you are wonderful, you are a human, that every other creature envy.

I have opened my window to you, I hope you too will..

It's up to to you now, can you at least try opening your window? who am I to say, I'm just a mere Common Commoner.

Your's truly,

TCC

A Mother

 

Hey Human,

It's often told Mother = God. The one who gives birth is called a mother, hence we call our nature also 'A MOTHER'. I am not going to brag about my mother or someone else's mother here, I'm trying to explore with you what is the true meaning of the word MOTHER. 

Is it a simple word or an emotion? Obviously whoever is reading this content love their mothers and I cannot deny there are few who do not & let’s not judge them (I know you guys have your reasons).

Do you think a human (lets not go to the animal topic now) who can give birth will be called a mother? Is it so simple? I always wonder why there is such a hype for that word. I have heard stories of people abandoning their children soon after they give birth. Then you tell me what is the difference between them and a true human who nourishes its(sometimes other's) offsprings with humanity & love. This is where I got confused and I thought of exploring the true meaning of MOTHER.

It's easy for people to tell a mother knows everything about her kids. Should it stop there? Should the love be only for her kids? then this big brag about the word MOTHER, doesn't get its true meaning right? When a girl marries into a household the son's mother will get a daughter (I consider this as wanted or unwanted adoption), since she too becomes the family. We are in the world where most women go through trauma caused by their in-laws (there are amazing in-laws in the world & this is strictly not for them), I remind you again, here too a "MOTHER" will come into the picture. So, do you think the meaning changes here? mother's nature changes here? mother becomes selfish here? and why she becomes selfish? On the other hand there are lot many incidents where the mother of a daughter spoils the relationship between the son-in-law and his mother. When you analyse, I think we start loosing the trust in the word "MOTHER" and we start blaming ourselves or society (Funny thing we forget that, WE ARE THE SOCIETY).  

There are restrictions or a set of responsibilities society impose on a "MOTHER", just because she is a mother, she is not allowed to dream & her primary responsibility is to take care of her child. If the child is a little offtrack (may be for whatsoever reason) she gets blamed. Do you think all bad people (society will tag the word) have bad mothers? I don't think so. A person grows into someone good or bad all depends on that person. 

And do you think all mothers are good just because they are mothers? Why do we push others to become someone else when we are so imperfect? We are after all humans and its our nature and desire to become bad or good. And is there really a good or bad thing in this world? (I'm thinking of writing about this topic, lets see!!)

All said and done, first of all we all should agree to a fact that 'MOTHER' is also a human first. And I don't like to badge that, a woman can only be a mother. And why do we have to put such pressure and expectations on someone who is just like me & you? obviously they too can make mistakes correct?

Yes! I agree only, women give birth (It seems male can too, in some scenarios but not sure about it so sorry!) but the emotion and the nature can be fulfilled by anyone in the world. A father, brother, sister, friend, caretaker, any human can become a mother (a true human) if they know the true meaning of the word and believes in loving unconditionally.

For me mother is also a human who, "loves unconditionally, values each relationship, cares for each emotion, embodies humanity, support through hardship & JUST BE THERE". Don't you think we all humans should be mothers? Don't you think the above said qualities should be present in each and everyone of us? Can we all at least try to become mothers? Or can we all try to become more human???

No matter what my thoughts are, it’s you who should decide.

I'm just a mere Common Commoner scribbling on my writing pad here.

Your's truly,

TCC

An Introduction apology....

Hey Human,

I am hereby asking for your apology for all the content that I'm going to write here if in any way it hurts your feelings. In this blog, you will know me as the common commoner. For me, English is only a medium through which I'm trying to reach thousands sorry! millions of people around the world. Since it's not my mother tongue, please expect grammatical errors often, and please feel free to correct them (whenever you feel like doing). I respect every language and culture and do not intend any disrespect to any of them. After all, I am just a mere common commoner.

Thank you for reading.... 

Your's truly,

TCC