Do you CRUSH???

Hey human,

Me again.... Hope all is going well☺ If not, don't you worry something better is coming after this sad period...

Very sorry for not writing anything from past few days.. It's been , no I have been little busy and very lazy at the same time.. My bad and sincere apologies 😊 I will try to be more regular...

I so wanted to write this one, because I have had many crushes in the past and it's not stopped now, you know, what I mean right?? Having a crush is like having a cheat day from your strict diet or sometimes more like having an ice-cream or dessert when u feel like having them (this comparison is for food lovers only 😜) for others may be it's like having a distraction from the regular life or for some it's like feeling young. And it's even more fun when that person responds to you back.. Sometimes knowing what's going on and sometimes without having any clue ..

I feel refreshed and inspired whenever I get that feeling. Generally I don't act on it and sometimes I do.... I strongly believe having crush on someone doesn't stop with the age and also this concept, many will accept and many won't. It's their own opinion and I respect that.

Crush for me is a feeling where, you start liking a person (tiny bit different than a friend), there will be a sudden raise in the heart beat always when you see them and you want to talk to them, sometimes even flirt a little 😉 You always think about them and smile for no reasons literally and will be very happy when they start talking to you.

Sometimes crushes end up being only that infatuation but sometimes it might grow into a relationship..

It all depends, sometimes crushes are not that serious sometimes they are... Coming to me again, I have had many crushes which were very silly with all the above symptoms 😉 and few were serious but majority was one sided meaning, I didn't approach any. Even though, each one has been an inspiration for something or the other hence I don't regret any. All those people have been a great impact in my life (not always good, some are sad).

I have learnt a lesson in life that no experience is bad or good, there will be a lesson in each. We just have to find and understand what we have to learn from it.

So having a crush is not so bad right??. Accepting to like someone is also not bad. Many times we never accept it and never tell the person that, we like them. 

Telling them also is also not that bad right? When you like someone, obviously you are not going to hurt that person, everrr. It's huge I know...., but telling them in a right way makes more sense and less burden on your heart. They might even get some positive vibes (the aura I meant, this for those who believe in auras) from you and that might solve their own life problems. We never know. But I am sure that, thinking good about a person will bring only good vibes. And I have noticed one thing crushes can be on any person I mean it can be on literally anybody. 

Crush can be on a person who is in relationship with someone else or on a married person or on a person who is younger or older to you. It has no boundaries. Only have a positive feeling, not hatred (coz you cant get them sometimes), nor go on stalking that person (I mean in a bad way, which might hurt them). My suggestion is keep it casual and express it and leave it. You have/had crush, that's all. If there is any scope for continuation please continue (only, if both are compatible) never force your feelings on anybody. they are yours and ONLY yours. Giving space in any feeling is very important.

These are the few things I feel, rest is up to you to decide how to act on it and make your feelings inspirational. Who am I to decide on behalf of your feelings, I'm just a mere common commoner.

Your's truly,

TCC