Hey Human,
Me again. It's been very very long time. We decided not to apologize anymore right?
Ok then let me begin.
Have you ever wondered what is success? What 'being successful' mean?
Each person perceives it differently right?!
For some, its small accomplishments but for few its a huge achievement. We often say 'we know the taste of success and its addictive'. Success comes in different ways to different people. I think every individual has at least once experienced having success in their life.
Success is something which brings us 'JOY', 'HAPPINESS', 'CONTENTNESS'. Sometimes we overpower the word by attaching it with many unrelated and unbearable goals. Finally we make success an unachievable thing in life. We often take the word too seriously.
Life is full of uncertainty, if we don't start living by having achievable success we feel like we are useless, unproductive, worthless leading a meaningless life. So lets start having small small goals in life small and lets celebrated their successes after achieving them.
For example my goal for today was to write this piece and publish it.
And see yayy!! I have done it 😀
Success is not only 'Climbing the tip of mount Everest'. It starts when you start making your mind for climbing. There are numerous small goals which leads to achieve the last goal and you call it a success. We often see the last part and call only that a success by forgetting the journey taken to achieve the last step. Success is measurable when you do it step by step. Reaching the tip of mount Everest is of course a great success but there are numerous small goals which were achieved before reaching the tip.
Every step taken towards reaching the tip(your final goal) is achieving success. So never underestimate completion of your baby steps towards your final goal. Never feel like 'I have done only this much 😓 and there is lot to achieve'. By doing this you are losing small happiness in your life and expecting you will be happy when you only reach the final goal. Start celebrating your small goals you never know how much you live but live with contentment and smile in your face.
Lets start with these simple steps. Getting up early, cooking dinner, working out, talking to a friend after a long time, going on a date, dressing up, smiling, helping someone, visiting your loved ones, going on a trip, fishing, camping, hiking, writing a poem/story, etc., If these are your small goals and you start achieving them, you feel that success follows you everywhere and you will never burden yourself. You will be more motivated to reach towards your final goal instead of thinking 'I am not going to achieve that or become that'.
Once you know how to achieve the smaller goals and how the success(tiny ones) feels, you will challenge yourself with new goals, bigger and greater ones. I am damn sure you will achieve those easily without tiring your physical, mental and emotional self.
SUCCESS will then become your habit not an impossible dream.
You can do if you believe in yourself and just remember the person you envy to become someday is also a 'HUMAN' just like you and me 😀
Nothing is impossible if you believe in yourself.
Success is just a fancy word, if you are happy you are successful.
It's up to you, how you wanna define 'SUCCESS', who am I to tell. I'm just a mere common commoner.
Yours truly,
TCC